She's Got Issues

We’ve all got our issues! Maybe you feel like life just isn’t going your way, or you’re afraid that you don’t measure up to other people’s expectations. Perhaps you have a hard time managing your temper or have someone in your life you just can’t forgive. We deal with our “issues” every day in one form or another; the problem is, after a while, they start to feel… normal. Unchanging. Just part of who we are. And we forget that we have access to the power of Christ—a power that can transform our everyday weaknesses into our greatest strengths and gifts.

In She’s Got Issues, Christian counselor, ministry leader, and regular mom Nicole Unice explores the ordinary issues that are keeping you from the full and free life you were meant to have. Applying years of counseling with practical scriptural teaching and a fresh and authentic voice, Nicole shows you how to let God freely shape your character—and transform your life from ordinary to abundant.

1. Opening
2. Chapter 1
3. So What's This "Ordinary"
4. Finding Real Abundance
5. So How's Love Going For You
6. Do You Have Issues
7. What's Next
8. How To Use This Book
9. Taking A Space Bar
10. Space Bar
11. Chapter 2
12. Salvation Tickets And Heaven Songs
13. Seriously Why Are We Here
14. Word Up
15. Space Bar
16. Chapter 3
17. The Origins Of Control
18. Control
19. Assessing Your Control Issues
20. Control Settings
21. Pawns And Control
22. Kings And Control
23. Welcome To The Human Condition
24. Space Bar
25. Chapter 4
26. Control - A New Definition
27. Word Up
28. The Practice Of Surrendering To God
29. Space Bar
30. Chapter 5
31. Defining The Issue
32. Insecurity Assessment
33. Insecurity - Not Just For Middle School
34. The Sham Of Worldly Security
35. All Tangled Up
36. The Necessary Awkward Stage
37. Space Bar
38. Chapter 6
39. The Storm Of Insecurity
40. Word Up
41. The Practice Of Turning
42. A New Source Of Security
43. So What Is Success
44. Space Bar
45. Chapter 7
46. Comparisons Assessment
47. Why We Compare
48. Blame Bombs
49. Comparison Complications
50. Space Bar
51. Chapter 8
52. Change In Status
53. Comparison - Note To Self
54. A Dsw Parable
55. Word Up
56. Tempted To Compare
57. Space Bar
58. Chapter 9
59. The Anxiety Problem
60. Your Relationship With Fear And Or Anxiety
61. Normal Anxiety
62. Fear Vs Anxiety
63. Fear Or Anxiety
64. Space Bar
65. Chapter 10
66. Anxiety
67. Word Up
68. A Year Without Fear
69. Replacing Anxiety With Peace
70. Space Bar
71. Chapter 11
72. Getting Mad
73. Anger Assessment
74. A Quick Body Lesson
75. Rage
76. Resentment
77. Indignation
78. Space Bar
79. Chapter 12
80. Why Am I Angry
81. Word Up
82. Preventative Measures
83. But I'm Already Triggered
84. But What About My Bleeping Mouth
85. But I'm Angry All The Time
86. There Is Hope
87. Space Bar
88. Chapter 13
89. Why Forgive
90. Word Up
91. Stuck In Unforgiveness
92. My Brain Believes It But My Heart Doesn't Want To Accept It
93. Forgiving Ourselves
94. Forgiveness Has Begun
95. Forgiving God
96. Space Bar
97. Chapter 14
98. The Healthy Woman
99. The End Of The Beginning
100. Space Bar