
Steps
A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Willpower Isn’t Enough
Is there really any hope for a spiritual way of living that actually works?
Admiration, comfort, love, power, success, pleasure, escape, control: we’re all addicted to something, whether we realize it or not.
In this deeply heartfelt book, author John Ortberg offers a guide for transformation when we know something needs to change but we can’t do it on our own. Rooted in the teachings of Jesus and using the framework of AAs 12 steps as a guide, Ortberg offers all of us a freeing roadmap for giving up our exhausting and fruitless efforts to fix, manage, and control our own lives; distinguishing between when willpower is essential and when it is futile; discovering how God can do for us what we can’t do for ourselves; and living authentically, joyfully and in communion with God and other people.
Ortberg shows us how to discover our spiritual attachment styles; our core doubts; the benefits of practices like prayer, meditation, and mindfulness; and God’s sufficiency in our inadequacy
In Steps, find what’s needed to experience a new freedom, a new fellowship and a new happiness no matter our circumstances.
- Opening Credits
- Dedication
- Foreword
- Introduction
- Step 1: The Problem: I Can't
- 1A: Join the Fellowship of the Withered Hand
- 1B: Ask for a Moment of Clarity
- 1C: Celebrate Personal Inadequacy
- Step 2: The Solution: He Can
- 2A: Look beyond Yourself
- 2B: Exercise "Good-Enough" Faith
- 2C: Take the Longest Journey
- Step 3: The Decision: I Think I'll Let Him
- 3A: Become Willing
- 3B: Practice Serenity
- 3C: Turn It Over. Take It Back. Repeat.
- Step 4: The Examination: A Fearless Inventory
- 4A: Understand Why We Need to Clean House
- 4B: Survey Your Resentments
- 4C: Survey Your Fears
- Step 5: The Confession: Into the Light
- 5A: Become Willing to "Fully Disclose"
- 5B: Lean What to Look For in a Fully Disclosing Friend
- 5C: Lean into Accountability
- Step 6: The Preparation: Became Entirely Ready
- 6A: Go from "Almost Ready" to "Entirely Ready"
- 6B: Add One Constructive Habit
- 6C: Receive Your Identity as the Beloved
- Step 7: The Petition: Humble Asking
- 7A: Be the Beetle
- 7B: OWN, Don't Enthrone
- 7C: Drop the Rock
- Step 8: The Damage Named Those We've Harmed
- 8A: Make a List
- 8B: Become Willing to Make Amends
- 8C: Practice Forgiveness
- Step 9: The Reparation: Made Amends
- 9A: Understand Amends
- 9B: Learn to Be "Direct"
- 9C: Learn Healthy Groveling
- Step 10: The Repetition: Continual Inventory
- 10: Do Life One Day at a Time
- Step 11: The Connection: The With-God Life
- 11A: Improve Your Conscious Contact with God
- 11B: Pray and Meditate
- 11C: Do the Next Right Thing
- Step 12: The Vocation: Helping Others
- 12A: Give It Away to Keep It
- 12B: Keep Coming Back
- 12C: Keep Hope Alive
- Epilogue
- Closing Credits
